Major Payne

G:MT Greenwich Mean Time (1999) IMDB rating: 6.40 Plot: Six London school-leavers attempt to make it in the world, balancing the challenge of trying to make a name for themselves in the music industry against the pressures and tragedies of everyday life.

Actors: Shepherd Steve John,Waters Ben,Newman Alec,Ejiofor Chiwetel,Annobil-Dodoo Freddie,Armstrong Alun,Beevers Geoffrey,Blundell John,Collins Karl,Drama,Music,Crime,

who have seen G:MT(greenwich mean time) movie and thinks its quite underrated, amazing film?

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Ive never even heard of that one?
Marco | Dec 11, 2009

Honkytonk Man (1982) IMDB rating: 6.30 Plot: As the film opens on an Oklahoma farm during the depression, two simultaneous visitors literally hit the Wagoneer home: a ruinous dust storm and a convertible crazily driven by Red, the missus’ brother. A roguish country-western musician, he has just been invited to audition for the Grand Ole Opry, his chance of a lifetime to become a success. However, this is way back in Nashville, Red clearly drives terribly, and he’s broke and sick with tuberculosis to boot. Whit, 14, seeing his own chance of a lifetime to avoid “growing up to be a cotton picker all my life,” begs Ma to let him go with Uncle Red as driver and protege. Thus begins a picaresque journey both hilarious and poignant.

Actors: Eastwood Clint,Eastwood Kyle,John McIntire,Clark Matt,Corbin Barry,Hardin Jerry,Thomerson Tim,McCalman Macon,Regalbuto Joe,Grubbs Gary,Gimble Johnny,Boelsen Jim,Walter Tracey,Russell John,Cyphers Charles,Comedy,Drama,Music,

Greatest IC champs 1-6?
1.Bret Hart
2.HBK
3.Owen Hart
4.Honkytonk Man
5. Chris Benoit
6.RVD

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Best Ever - Honky Tonk Man

Others :

1. Shawn Michaels
2. Bret Hart
3. Ricky Steamboat
4. Owen Hart
5. Chris Jericho
6. Chris Benoit/Rob Van Dam

The Rock | Apr 09, 2009

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Question..?
Austin > Rock | Apr 09, 2009

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Your not going to include Ultimate Warrior??

1.Honkytonk Man
2.Bret Hart
3.HBK
4.RVD
5.Chris Benoit
6.Owen Hart
HBK_Jouth [J] _ MiChAeLs FaN_HBK | Apr 09, 2009

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1.RVD
2.Chris Benoit
3.HBK
4.Honkytonk Man
5.Bret Hart
6.Owen Hart

This is my opinion
john cena | Apr 09, 2009

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Owen Hart
Bret Hart
Chris Jericho
Edge
Chris Benoit
Christian
Kevin Green | Apr 09, 2009

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Who can you put Elvis there but not include Greg Valentine, Randy Savage, or Tito Santana?
Mister R | Apr 09, 2009

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i prefer jericho or steamboat instead of honky tonk man
Y2J the world is yours-lionheart | Apr 09, 2009

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No particular order:
1.Bret Hart
2.Mr.Perfect
3.Ricky Steamboat
4.Texas Tornado
5.Pedro Morales
6.Rick Rude
>Johnny< | Apr 09, 2009

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In no particular order:

1. Randy Savage
2. "Mr. Perfect" Curt Hennig
3. Honky Tonk Man
4. Bret Hart
5. Shawn Michaels
6. The Rock
Tobi H | Apr 09, 2009

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1) Chris Jericho
2) Shawn Michaels
3) Chris Benoit
4) Honky Tonk Man
5) Triple H
6) Mr.Perfect

They’re not in order, the order should be 6,1,4,2,3,5.
The_Phenom_Lives | Apr 09, 2009

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1.Razor Ramon
2.Diesel
3.Owen Hart
4.Ricky "The Dragon" Steamboat
5.Bret "The Hitman" Hart
6."Mr. Perfect" Curt Hennig
The Bad Guy Razor Ramon | Apr 09, 2009

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My top 6 IC champs would be
Mr Perfect
Bret Hart
Shawn Micahels
Don Murraco
Stone Cold Steve Austin
Chris Jericho
oldscholl88 | Apr 09, 2009

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These are my 6:

Macho Man Randy Savage
Mr. Perfect
Bret Hart
Shawn Michaels
Pedro Morales
Rob Van Dam

So many greats, hard to choose from.
THE BOTTOM LINE!!! | Apr 09, 2009

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1) Bret Hart
2) Ricky Steamboat
3) Mr Perfect
4) Owen Hart
5) RVD
6) Chris Benoit

Hard to choose, a lot of the best wrestlers were IC Champs.
Komachi [R.I.P Test] | Apr 10, 2009

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1) Bret Hart
2) Mr. Perfect
3) Owen Hart
4) Roddy Piper
5) Rick Rude
6) Macho Man
Alex | Apr 13, 2009

G:MT Greenwich Mean Time (1999) IMDB rating: 6.40 Plot: Six London school-leavers attempt to make it in the world, balancing the challenge of trying to make a name for themselves in the music industry against the pressures and tragedies of everyday life.

Actors: Shepherd Steve John,Waters Ben,Newman Alec,Ejiofor Chiwetel,Annobil-Dodoo Freddie,Armstrong Alun,Beevers Geoffrey,Blundell John,Collins Karl,Drama,Music,Crime,

who have seen G:MT(greenwich mean time) movie and thinks its quite underrated, amazing film?

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Ive never even heard of that one?
Marco | Dec 11, 2009

Walk Hard: The Dewey Cox Story (2007) IMDB rating: 6.90 Plot: The up-and-down-and-up-again story of musician Dewey Cox (John C. Reilly), whose songs would change a nation. On his rock’n roll spiral, Cox sleeps with 411 women, marries three times, has 22 kids and 14 stepkids, stars in his own 70s TV show, collects friends ranging from Elvis to the Beatles to a chimp, and gets addicted to (and then kicks) every drug known to man, but despite it all, Cox grows into a national icon and eventually earns the love of a good woman.

Actors: Abernathy Don,Adams Patrick J.,Anton George,Arnold Michael William,Ausburn Christopher,Babcock Caleb,Barry Raymond J.,Bates Paul,Beasor Terrence,Besser Matt,Bird Jay,Bishop Rian,Black Jack,Blake Clement,Bodell Ian,Comedy,Music,

Can you rate these movies from 1-10?
The Dark Knight -
Step-Brothers -
Walk Hard: The Dewey Cox Story -
The Bucket List -
Sweeney Todd -

Random movies I’ve seen. Just wanted to know what other people thought of them. =]

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The Dark Knight- 9/10
Step-Brothers-8/10
Walk Hard: The Dewey Cox story- 6/10
The Bucket List- 6/10
Sweeney Todd- 9/10

My favorite out of these would have to be Sweeney Todd, what’s better than a gory musical?

Zgirl | Jan 31, 2009

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dark night #1
nothing else matters
Keegan C | Jan 30, 2009

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The Dark Knight - 10/10
Step-Brothers - 2/10
The Bucket List - 7/10

sorry that’s all i’ve seen

The Doors (1991) IMDB rating: 6.90 Plot: Oliver Stone’s homage to 60’s rock group The Doors also doubles as a biography of the group’s late singer, the “Electric Poet” Jim Morrison. The movie follows Morrison from his days as a film student in Los Angeles to his death in Paris in 1971, at the age of 27. The movies features a tour- de-force performance by Val Kilmer, who not only looks like Jim Morrison’s long-lost twin brother, but also sounds so much like him that he did much of his own singing. It has been written that even the surviving Doors had trouble distinguishing Kilmer’s vocals from Morrison’s originals.

Actors: Wincott Michael,Madsen Michael,Evans Josh,Burkley Dennis,Idol Billy,MacLachlan Kyle,Dillon Kevin,Whaley Frank,Kilmer Val,Densmore John,Sturm Jerry,Stone Sean,Biography,Drama,Music,

Where can I find this particular clip from A Haunting In Connecticut?
I’m looking for the clip just before Matt starts the fire, where he’s carrying the ax and goes to bang the door down? Where can I find the video clip for that? And also, if you could find a way to download it? That would be amazing. That’s my favorite part of the movie.

Road to Nashville, The (1967) IMDB rating: 5.90 Plot: A Hollywood film company wants to make a movie about country music and sends Doodles Weaver to round up talent to appear. A host of then-current country stars perform their hits.

Actors: Robbins Marty,Pierce Webb,Anderson Bill,Arlen Richard,Buck,Cash Johnny,Emery Ralph,Frizzell Lefty,Gumstump Quinine,Jennings Waylon,Osborne Bobby,Osborne Sonny,Phillips Bill,Rhodes Speck,Snow Hank,Music,

Do you agree the Titans will beat the Dolphins?
I think the Titans will win. As to why they are hotter football team right now. They have won 6 of their last 7, defense has stepped contianning their opponents scoring, forcing turnovers, and getting pressure. The game is in Nashville. That’s a huge advantage right now with the way the Titans have been playing as LP Field has returned to being a very tough place to play when the Titans are hot, and playing great football. I’m confident VY will play, and lead the Titans to a win over the fish. I think the Titans will score early putting the Dolphins in a hole, and not let up forcing the fish to play catch up ball. The Titans defense rattles Henne forcing him to thrown more than 1 int, and Willaims is contained. Chris Johnson will not be containned, and the Titans have a more productive offense than the Jags. Add in Washington to have a big game agaisnt a quality oppoent in a big profile critical game. The Titans already ended one big streak the Cards road winning streak in Nashville I don’t see why they can’t do the same to the fish ending their undefeated december since Big Tony became the dolphins head coach.

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Definitely yea.

john | Dec 15, 2009

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Agreed
/**{BB JR}**\ Agent B | Dec 14, 2009

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I agree.
VT Football Forever (9-3) | Dec 14, 2009

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I think the dolphins will win.

The titans are next to last in pass defense, chad henne threw for nearly 400 yards on the 14th ranked defense (pats).

Plus the dolphins silenced Maurice Jones Drew last week in jacksonville, who is the fifth best RB in terms of yards

As for your claim that the titans have a more productive offense than the jags: Tennessee averages a mere 20 yards of total offense more than the jags. The jags also have a better throwing QB than tennessee.

I say the dolphins win another close one 24-20

VY throws for 120 with no tds and an int
johnson rushes for 100 and two TDs

Henne throws for 250 2 TDs and 1 Int
Williams rushes for 70 and a TD
C-Bo | Dec 14, 2009

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I like how people under-estimate the Dolphins, that’s what gets teams in trouble. While I agree with some of your predictions, I also think the Dolphins will not lose because they are on a roll too. After going 0-3, they are 7-3 ever since. They have kept up with the best teams in the league, and beat some of the best. Beating the Jags is not an easy task, beating the Patriots is not an easy task. Beating the Jets TWICE, is no easy task, as they have a stingy defense. Miami plays a very physical game, so they will be able to play against the Titans. We have two very talented cornerbacks, and they’ve been going against most of the best receivers the whole year. I think Kenny Britt will be contained. Vince Young is doing well, but he averages 150 yards in the air a game. He won’t be too much of a factor. Tennessee hasn’t faced a physical offense and defense all in one game. Miami is a rugged team and playing with heart. Miami also has one of the best run defenses in the league while being on of the best rushing offenses. We pound it down your throat until you can’t handle it anymore. The Jags tried to play the game with us and lost. When we minimize mistakes to a minimum, then we won’t be beat. We’ll force pressure on VY, and get the picks we need. He forces a lot of passes, ad this isn’t the defense you want to force a pass with. We’ve just got done playing Tom Brady too, two passes picked off, you think Miami will have trouble with a running QB? Not really. It will be a good game yes, but I think Miami is tougher right now, they have more to gain and lose. Don’t underestimate them, it always gets teams in trouble.
Miami LandSharks | Dec 14, 2009

Beyond the Sea (2004) IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: Consummate entertainer Bobby Darin (1936-1973) is making a movie about his life. He’s volatile, driven by the love of performing, ambition, perfectionism, and belief that he’s living on borrowed time. He begins in the Bronx: a fatherless lad learning music and dance from his mom. His career starts slowly, then “Splish Splash” puts him at the top of the charts and on “Bandstand.” He wants to be an entertainer, not a pop star, so he aims for the Copacabana; then it’s on to the movies, where he meets and marries Sandra Dee. After, it’s balancing career, health, marriage and family life, balances he doesn’t always keep. Throughout, conversations with his boyhood self give him perspective.

Actors: Spacey Kevin,Goodman John,Hoskins Bob,Cincotti Peter,Ullrich William,Byrne Michael,Rippy Matt,Whelan Gary,Broder Jake,Bademsoy Tayfun,Spencer Tomas,Biography,Drama,Music,Musical,

is my writing good? not counting spelling, just the story; 1-10?
you can just read part if you want. its most of my first chapter, but i decided to revise what was before it. thanks so much fir any help free two points plus ten to the best?

when finally the last tick of the clock anounced the last second of the school year, the archaic bell resounding through the even older building, students acted as though it were the alarm sounding the Apocolips. They flew awkwardly from the room, tripping and toppling over desks and chairs and smaller people, until finally they flooded the halls and managed to evacuate the place most of them thought as a hell-whole.

i blended with them as well as possible, keeping my straitened, dyed-black hair (which i’d also added hot pink extensions too) over my face and the hood of my black Pac Sun sweatshirt up. my hands stayed in my pockets, my left one secured around the knife, until i reached the back of the school building and sat between shrubs against the brick. i pulled the knife out and flipped it open, slowly pressuring the cool metal to my fore arm. the skin was just about to split, to part as would the Red Sea, when he startled me with the noise of a match flaring up.

"you come back here, too?" he asked, lighting the joint between his teeth.

"sometimes." i said. "not usually for pot, though."

"just to cut yourself?"

i shrugged.

"im jeremiah." he said, offering me the joint. "are you gonna tell me your name?"

"accailia." i said, taking a pull of marijauna into my lungs. slowly i began to feel the happy effects in my head as i passed dope back to him. "you come back here just to smoke?"

"pretty much. or drink, but do you mind if i try that?" he indicated my knife. "you dont have a blood disease, do you?" he added as i handed him the knife.

"not that i know of." i told him, reaching in my bag for something to eat as marijauna’s effects set in. all i had were a plastic box of tic-tacs, though. not exactly appetizing, but it would rid me of pot breath. i offered him some, as well, and thats when he noticed the pill.

"woah!" he said. "is that-?"

i began to say no, when i realized it was acid. the tic tacs i’d taken mustve been my fathers.

"yeah." i told him. "but it’s… a friends."

"you think they would mind if we had our own little party with it?"

i frowned. my father did not take close inventory of his pills. but i had seen the affects of acid before too closeley, and i did not want any for myself.

"you can." i told him. "but i think i’ll just stick with weed if you have any more."

"deal." he said, pulling a bong from his bag and handing it to me along with my knife and some matches. i lit up, and soon was too dedicated to my own hazy world to notice much of what wad going on in the real world. pot was making me happy, and the knife was setting me free.

soon, however, the effects of acid on it’s virgin user jeremiah began to sober me.

Know Thy Enemy (2009) IMDB rating: 0.00 Plot: Nemesis is the hottest rapper in rap’s hottest city; Miami, the 305. But he has a little secret…he’s not really a rapper. As a boy the artistic Nate Harris drew cartoons and dreamed of changing the world. A record label discovers Nate’s talent, and offers to make him a star, as a rapper. They create Nemesis, a Hip Hop gangster designed to sell records and spit hate. Fame quickly follows, but at a price. The fans demand true street cred, and to get it, Nate’s label turns a fellow rapper and former childhood friend against Nate, spawning a rap feud. The feud quickly escalates into a war, and Nate is trapped in the reality of the fiction he has created. Nate is faced with a choice: Either become a superstar by giving Hip-Hop what it wants; a war between two rap rivals, or, give it what it needs; destroy his real rival, the fictional character and become a true hero; he has the ability to save hip hop…but can he save himself?

Actors: McKinney Sheaun,Taylor Marlon,Mitchell Jeremy,Sylvain Bechir,Gainey Andre L.,Burden Lyndon,Nealy D.J.,Mackey Tim,Goodman Rob,Robinson Khambrel,Walton Kevin,Tubbs Jerome,Drama,Music,

Does Christianity make a person more of an emotional thinker?
I understand Christianity fosters "love thy neighbor, love thy enemy, give to the poor, etc". Does those values make a person more of an emotional thinker rather than logical?

Does it allow the emotional strings to be pulled to con people out of money?

Provide your insight into this. Thank you for your time and answers.

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yes; critical thinking is suspended in fundy circles but not mainline protestant churches.

Unitarian Universalist | Jan 15, 2010

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not so much of an emotional thinker

more just emotional
Gentleman Jack | Jan 15, 2010

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You could be partly right. I think God gives us a new heart to care for others. However, many Christians are well educated. There is a lot of strange stuff going on in some Christian circles so one must be wise when you donate money. There is nothing wrong with supporting Christian programs/organizations as long as you are wise in giving.
angel | Jan 15, 2010

Shine (1996) IMDB rating: 7.50 Plot: Based on the true story of Australian pianist David Helfgott, this delightful movie charts the early and traumatic early years. Telling the story in flashback we see David as he grows up and into a child prodigy while his father abuses him and his siblings with the memory of his childhood in Europe and the loss of his family in the concentration camps. David finally breaks away from his father and goes away to study overseas, he later suffers a breakdown and returns to Australia and a life in an institution. Many years later he is released and through several twists of fate (in reality even more unlikely than film portrays) he starts playing a piano in a bar before finally returning to the concert hall.

Online Movies World

Actors: Rush Geoffrey,Braine Justin,Haywood Chris,Rafalowicz Alex,Poole Gordon,Mueller-Stahl Armin,Bell Nicholas,Cousins John,Taylor Noah,Linkson Paul,Berger Randall,Biography,Drama,Music,Romance,

Diamond color choices help!!!!?
Here are my two options:
1) a .66 round cut, signature Ideal, I, IF
2) a .59 round cut, signature ideal, G, VVS1

The .66 is cheaper for a bigger size, however the color difference is significant. When you have excellent cut and clartiy, does color really matter? I do not like a yellow tint and I worry with an "I" color that the yellow will shine through, however I am not sure with the cut and clarity being so excellent.

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I would go for the .59. The G and VVSI are better.
Carol G | Feb 07, 2010

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With an "I" you will notice a slightly yellow tinge to it. A good friend of mine just got engaged, and his fiance insisted on at least a full carat. So the full carat he could afford was an "I" colour. I saw it yesterday and you could definitely notice the yellowish hint to it. It was especially noticeable when we were comparing rings, since my centre stone (although smaller at 0.6 carats) is an F colour rating (considered colourless).

If you want to save money to get a larger stone, but don’t want that yellow tinge, look for a minimum "H" colour rating. No matter how high the clarity rating, you will notice a poor colour. If colour is more important to you, go for a lower clarity (anything above VS1 is enough, eye clean and will still look great) and put the cost difference into getting a G rated diamond.

I would personally take the 2nd diamond. The higher quality is worth more than the carat size in my opinion. It will sparkle and catch the light better, making it more stunning overall. And the difference between 0.66 carats and 0.59 isn’t going to be noticeable at all to the eye, unless you have a scale. The difference in quality will be much more noticeable!
Rachel - Just Married! | Feb 07, 2010

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Go for the second one. The difference between 0.66 and 0.59 isn’t that big, and I color isn’t that good.
jellybeancounter | Feb 07, 2010

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I have always gone for quality in everything I buy.

And, quality never causes regrets.

GO FOR QUALITY.
seamstress | Feb 07, 2010

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Your better value int the long run is first one. Despite the fact that the color is of a colored hue the fact that the diamond has almost no flaws it is actually a more expensive diamond. You will actually not see the tinge of color in the diamond as much as you think if placed in the right setting. If it has a yellow hue try a gold band, if it is more blue, try silver. I am sure which every you choose will be wonderful.
Kristy F | Feb 07, 2010

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I would go for the G-color diamond.

But I would also continue to shop around.

I got my wife’s diamond at

www.dbof.com

You can also try

www.WhiteFlash.com
www.GoodOldGold.com
www.ExcelDiamonds.com

Happy hunting.

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4REEE | Feb 07, 2010

Home at the End of the World, A (2004) IMDB rating: 6.70 Plot: Two childhood friends face their past relationships, including their own, alongside a new friend in the 1980’s in New York City. Their friendship becomes a love triangle as they struggle with a father’s death and an unexpected pregnancy. Together, the shall face each other as they realize that everything they have may not be what they expected.

Actors: Chalmers Andrew,Donowho Ryan,Authors Jeff J.J.,Lea Ron,Smith Erik,Allan Harris,Frewer Matt,Farrell Colin,Roberts Dallas,Roberts Shawn,Drama,Music,Romance,

I've been married for only a month and I'm thinking of divorce, what should I do?
I just got married, its only been a month. Ever since I said I do, I feel my life is over and I’ve made a huge mistake. Is not that I don’t love my husband, I do and I really do wish we can grow old together and build a dream life. My husband and I come from different worlds, I grew up with a silver spoon, with wealthy parents and bred to be a woman of society. Him on the other hand, had to hustle his way to the top, with drug addict parents that never did a thing for him and had to depend on his grandparents and student loans to get by. I was always aware of his financial situation and always felt bad that he had to struggle so much. However, you would think he had more appreciation for money because he struggled so much with out it but instead made incredible poor financial choices like buying expensive watches with student loans, purchasing an expensive sports car, dropping out of school to play soccer full time and quitting his job because he didn’t get along with his boss. My dad found him a job at a prestigious financial firm and after working for less than two months, he told me he wanted to quit because he didn’t get along with a co-worker even though he had amounted debts and accounts in default. We got married at city hall, even though I’ve always wanted a big, fabulous and perfect wedding but he didn’t want to exclude his mother’s ex-con boyfriend from the guest list because his mother threatened not to attend if he couldn’t come as her guest. Much to my family’s disappointment to watch me walk down the aisle in a nice wedding that I deserved, they still supported my decision and gifted us generously, while his family (all the members chipped in) gifted us a $500 table. I currently attend school which my father will continue to pay until i graduate and don’t work. I took all the money my family gave us (all the checks were made on my name) on a savings account after buying the necessary things a home needs and updating all his defaulted accounts. But my husband and I are in continuous disagreement because he wants to spend the money on trips, watches and unnecessary things. Besides that, he monitors my spending through the internet and questions my purchases (I use the money from my trust fund) that I make for the home. He also questions my decorating, housekeeping and if I tell him to do something, he’ll do the opposite. He says he has no saying in his house but this isn’t his house, my dad pays for it and its on my name. We also fight constantly because of his hobbies, he is obsessed with working out and soccer. He plays soccer three times a week, leaving me taking care of the house all by myself and having to eat dinner alone because he comes back at 11pm. The other days, he spends about two hours at the gym and playing with his dog. I feel very unhappy and married life has been nothing like I expected. I feel empty and unappreciated. I’m only 21yrs old and I feel I gave up a lot for my husband and he doesn’t see that. All he says is I nagg to much and criticize him constantly. He also says I only care about money and that I would have been much happier marrying a millionaire but its not true. I told him I’ve thought about getting a divorce and he says just to serve him with the papers and he’d be happy to leave. I don’t really want to end in divorce but I feel our marriage issues wont ever get resolved because he doesn’t see things the way I do.
no, actually i’m not spoiled. i don’t work cause i go to school finishing a double bachelor and take care of my grandma who had a stroke and can’t move half her body. although i always knew about his family, i didn’t know they would be calling in the middle of the night asking for drug money. the reason it bothers me they gifted us a $500 table is because he had a bunch of unpaid bills and my dad had to pay them all for him because he needed to clean his credit report. his family has A LOT of money, its just his parents are the black sheep!!
no, actually i’m not spoiled. i don’t work cause i go to school finishing a double bachelor and take care of my grandma who had a stroke and can’t move half her body. although i always knew about his family, i didn’t know they would be calling in the middle of the night asking for drug money. the reason it bothers me they gifted us a $500 table is because he had a bunch of unpaid bills and my dad had to pay them all for him because he needed to clean his credit report. his family has A LOT of money, its just his parents are the black sheep!! i also suggested marriage counseling and he said no. i want to save our wedding money so WE can buy a house of our own and don’t depend on my dad!
i’m sorry if i sound spoiled to some of u, but this is the only life i’ve known. i’m sorry if my grammar is not the best, but i’m not american and english is not my first language. i don’t threatened him with divorce, i just asked him once when he said i was a bad wife. i need to control the money cause i’m study business, and before we got married we agreed i’d be the accountant of the family. he in the other hand wants to blow the money in things we don’t need like rims for his car, a mont blanc pen and a trip to south africa in the summer. he’s 28 so he should act his age and perhaps finish college.

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I’ll make a prediction. You will suffer like this for years. You may never take any action at all. You will remain married to him and miserable until he dies. You will regret having wasted your life and wishing you had not settled for such a dismal existence.

That’s what most people do.

OR

You can gather up your courage and realize you made a huge mistake with this guy. Let him know it’s over and your worlds are way too different to ever be happy together. Move back home with mom and dad until the storm passes. Get you divorce. And start over.

Your choice.
jdrumming | Dec 02, 2009

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A little too late for regrets, you should of thought about this before you married. Now, suck it up!
* | Dec 02, 2009

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obviously you didnt get married for the right reasons to begin with
Suzanne | Dec 02, 2009

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Why on Earth did you get married? Surely none of this is new in the last month since you did? Or did you think marriage was gong to "change" him.

You marry someone because you love them for who they are. I think you must have missed that page of the guidebook.
hepmom | Dec 02, 2009

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In some states, such as NY….you would never be allowed to div after a month or so.

You made your bed…sleep in it for a few moer years…and work your @ss off to make each other happy. You sound like a spoiled brat to me.
Mary | Dec 02, 2009

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Well, aren’t you a proper little princess? While your husband sounds like he’s made bad decisions you sound really judgemental about his family "only" gifting you $500….WHO THE HELL CARES LADY? You sound like a spoiled pampered little girl…who married someone you shouldn’t have married in the first place. If you wanted to marry someone with a socialite background with lots of money, then you should have done that. You knew who this guy was before you married him, correct?
Rachel | Dec 02, 2009

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One month and ready to throw in the towel. Wow.

Marriage is a LIFETIME commitment.

Marriage takes work. Please work at yours. You will be thankful you did!!

Trust me!!!

Peace
Richard F | Dec 02, 2009

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What a great case example.

I’m developing a book that details how the wealthy think differently from the non-wealthy ("income-based" vs "wealth-based")

The difference in thinking is amazing, and is not covered anywhere else I know of. It is not psychology, just a completely and radically different way of thinking about money, what it is, where it comes from, and how to use it.

Contact me if you like and we can discuss it in detail. You can e-mail me from my profile page.

I would love to find out if my writings could help you guys, and of course will use your case example if I should ever publish this thing!
Art M | Dec 02, 2009

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get out now
dell | Dec 02, 2009

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He sounds terrible but so do YOU. You’re controlling, demanding and you do not want to SHARE your life with him ("It’s not his house. My dad is paying for it"). You want to pull all the strings since you’re the one who indirectly has the money.

You REALLY wanted him to be your puppy dog and he REALLY wanted you to be his caretaker, but you guys just didn’t work out the details. He has "rabies" and he needs to be "put down".

You guys should DEFINITELY divorce.
Howdy! | Dec 02, 2009

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I would rather brush my skin with a wire brush till I bled then to be born rich. You start from the bottem and work your way up. Part of being a couple in the beginning is the struggle. It makes you a stronger more knowledgeable couple. Not to mention all the cute and creative ways you show each other you care! For example, this one older lady told me that her and her husband were so poor when they first got married that when the holidays came along, they would go to a card store, pick out cards for eachother, kissed and hugged and told each other how much they cared, put the cards back and left!

But in reality, it sounds like he made the bad decision of marrying you. He is very young with little experience in life unlike you who has daddy sign over everything, he doesn’t have that. That is very generous of his family to give $500 when they knew it was a waste of money giving it to you.
Poppy | Dec 02, 2009

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For someone who grew up with a silver spoon you have very poor grammar and spelling. Also, "gifted" is not a word. You sound very spoiled to me. Perhaps you should work on compromise and learning to see your husband as having the same value as you. If you love him, it shouldn’t be that hard.
ouragon | Dec 02, 2009

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Clearly you should have been paying much more attention BEFORE you went to city hall, but that is all water under the bridge now. Thank your parents for looking out for your personal well being and understanding that you needed to make your own choices - good or bad.
I don’t think that this is going to get any better for you based on all the information that you have provided. Cut your losses and walk away. Look, you are only 21 - trust me, two years from now, (maybe even less) everyone will forget you had this little one month of mishap and not even remember that you got married. Especially since it was only a city hall episode and not the grand celebration that your family will provide once you find that perfect mate!
Owen | Dec 02, 2009

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wow…i think that you should go see a marriage counselor and see what happens…it seems that the biggest issue is him not getting along with people at work. He needs to learn to just deal with people and how to handle certain situations without just giving up on something that he needs in order to survive in this life. He is lucky to have you and your family as you seem to be supportive of him. But talk to a marriage counselor and see what they suggest…
Mr. SInclair's Fiance | Dec 02, 2009

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HELLO. IM NOT GOING TO TELL YOU TO THROW IN THE TOWEL BECAUSE YOU MARRIED THIS MAN AND WITH THIS MARRIAGE CAME VOWS THAT YOU SHOULD AT LEAST TRY TO ADHEAR TO. HOWEVER I AM GOING TO TELL YOU THIS MUCH AND THAT IS YOU SOUND VERY SELF-CENTERED AND I’M NOT BY ANYMEANS PASSING JUDGEMENT BECAUSE GOD KNOWS I AM GOING THRU A SIMILIAR SITUATION, HE DOES SOUND A LITTLE IRRESPONSIBLE BUT YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT HIS BAD JUST AS YOU DO HIS GOOD. HE IS WHO HE IS JUST AS YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE AND YOU EITHER ACCEPT HIM AND TRY TO WORK ON YOUR DIFFERENCE WITH HIM MAYBE THRU SOME COUNSELING / OR YOU DONT. BUT DONT JUST GO THROWING IN THE TOWEL BECAUSE THINGS ARENT THE WAY YOU FEEL THAT THEY SHOULD BE YOU TWO ARE DIFFERENT AND EVERY DAY WILL NOT BE A ROSE GARDEN, AND UNLESS YOU REALLY WANT A DIVORCE OR SEPERATION LEADING TO ONE YOU SHOULDN’T KEEP THREATENING HIM WITH DIVORCE YOU MIGHT JUST GET YOUR WISH DEAR. AND THEN YOU WILL BE BACK ON HER AGAIN WITH HOW DO YOU STOP THE DIVORCE FROM A PROBLEM THAT YOU CREATED.. SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT, I LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO TOO SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY… BEST OF LUCK TO YOU
nikki | Dec 02, 2009